If every time you chat with a girl you start with "What are you doing?", it will inevitably bore the girl and make her stop wanting to reply to you over time. So if you want to chat with a girl, what other suitable starters are there other than "What are you doing?"

1. Offer first and then ask for it

Don’t let it appear that you are someone who only wants to ask. Men, if you want girls to like you, you need to provide more value, your shining points, and your humor. Instead of just asking questions, we can provide some value first and then ask questions.

For example, you have just come out of the gym and your friend invites you to drink. You feel like your training was in vain today. What are you doing?

For example, your friend just opened a small bar. , I come to him to do odd jobs and support him, what are you doing?

For example, today I am busy filming a video program and my leg is broken, what are you doing?

For example, today I come to the night market Eating, on the first day after the lockdown was lifted, I felt like everyone was bored.

2. Add emotions when asking questions

Women are emotional animals and have no resistance to humorous men. . We can add emotional value by changing the way we ask questions.

For example, the handsome one has just finished his work, but what is the beautiful one doing?

For example, if you are picking your feet, are you still browsing Taobao?

For example, what are you doing if you are up so late? Are you awakened by your beauty?

For example, are you still studying? It doesn’t matter if you can’t get into a good school. The school scores are 985 and 211, but Internet cafes Where are you playing in a chain, not playing?

3. Change the entry method

Among many friends So when I want to ask girls what they are doing, I just can’t find the topic or entry point for chatting. In fact, there are many ways to start a conversation with a girl and have a pleasant chat.

For example, directly send a girl a photo of you eating, playing, or studying. If the girl is interested, she will reply directly to you.

For example, a universal opener that arouses emotions can elicit a woman’s reply, “I heard that you have been sick lately and can’t eat from your plate or swallow your bowl.”

For example, just give her a pat on the back. , and then told her that patting is very effective in losing weight.