In the process of chasing girls, many boys do not have certain chatting skills. Either they cannot find the topic while chatting, or they chat so much that the girl does not want to reply. Below, the editor will teach you 3 chatting skills with girls to help you solve the problem of not being able to chat.

1. Establish a relaxed chat atmosphere and mobilize her emotions

Many times, we Chatting with girls makes you nervous because the atmosphere is too tense. Therefore, when chatting with girls, we must try our best to create a relaxed and pleasant chatting atmosphere in order to better arouse her emotions.

For example, when we first get to know a girl, we don’t just go and chat with her. We can learn about her information in advance, such as whether she likes sports, whether she likes shopping, or whether she can’t fight. Playing games...

Things like this can help us find topics that make girls feel comfortable, and at least we can continue chatting with girls, such as:

Man: I see in your circle of friends, yes Have you gone to eat barbecue?

Female: Yes

Male: I went to xxx to eat last time, and I think it is the best barbecue in our city

< p> Female: I don’t really like barbecue, it’s too greasy

Male: For girls, animals with long legs may be the culprit of their obesity

Female: Haha

Here we talk to girls about "barbecue" based on the content of their friends circle. When a girl expresses that she doesn't like it, she can make fun of barbecue and weight loss. Later, she can change the topic to health or Continue to establish effective and interesting interactions with girls when it comes to cooking for yourself.

2. Targeted chatting, establishing contact with girls

In the process of getting along, it is important to have a good relationship with a girl. A very important basis for people to have good feelings is "sharing a common language". Maybe we can't know what girls like at the moment, but we all need to work for life, and this can be used as a common ground to talk to girls. For example:

Male: I heard that working in your industry is very tiring

Female: Not bad (response was dull)

Male: I am in the same industry as you. But why are you so tired? (Change the topic to yourself)

Female: What do you do?

Male: There is a key under the overpass (to tease the girl)

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The chat here is to constantly guide girls into our chat. When girls are not interested in the topic that is proposed, don’t be too entangled and quickly change the topic to On my own, in the process of asking and answering questions, in order to avoid chattingIf it is too logical, you can tease the girl appropriately to make the chat more interesting.

3. A sincere and playful chat mode

If you are too serious when chatting with a girl, It will make girls think you are boring, and if you are too humorous, it will make girls think you are not upright, so we must be sincere and playful in our chats.

For example, when faced with some serious questions from girls, formal answers can easily make the chat atmosphere awkward. At this time, we need to respond in a more humorous way, such as:

Female: Why are you so nice to me?

Male: Because you can sell it at a good price during the Chinese New Year. The price of pork has been soaring recently

If a girl is in a more emotional state Okay, the mood has reached a relatively high point. At this time, it doesn't make much sense to tease the girl. The best thing is to bring the girl's mood back to balance the mood. For example:

Female: Hahaha, you are so funny

Male: You smile like a fool at the entrance of the village. I won’t make trouble with you anymore. I still have some work to do, so I’ll leave first. Oh

When you are having a good chat with a girl, be sure not to keep pestering the other person to chat. This will easily consume the girl’s enthusiasm. Once the girl’s emotions and enthusiasm fade, she will want to rekindle them. It will become extremely difficult, so if you feel that the conversation was good and the purpose of attracting girls has been achieved, you can just choose to retreat in time, so as to retain the girl's sense of expectation for the next chat.