Dating is a traditional way of marriage and love, but for many people, chatting with strangers is not easy. In a blind date, how you chat with the other person is very important, because it is related to whether there is the possibility of further development between you. Here are some chat topics for blind date partners.
1. Hobbies
Understanding the other person’s hobbies is a good start. You can ask him/her what kind of movies, music or books he/she likes etc. If you share common interests, you can communicate more deeply and build closer connections.
In addition, you can also share your interests and hobbies to let the other party know you better. If you like traveling, you can share some interesting travel experiences; if you like sports, you can talk about your favorite sports.
2. Work and study
Work and study are things we must face in our daily lives. By understanding the other person's work and study situation, you can better understand his/her life status and values.
You can ask the other person what job they are currently engaged in, whether they like this job, whether they have encountered any difficulties, etc. Likewise, you can share your work and learning experiences.
3. Family and Friends
Family and friends are one of the most important support systems in our lives. By learning about the other person's family and friends, you can better understand his/her background and personality traits.
You can ask the person how many people there are in their family, what their parents do for a living, and whether they have any brothers or sisters? In addition, you can also ask the person who their best friend is and what activities they usually do.
4. Future plans
In a blind date, it is very important to understand the other person’s future plans. Not only will this give you a better understanding of the other person's goals and plans, but it will also allow you to see if you have a shared vision for the future.
You can ask the other person what career they want to pursue in the future, whether they want children, whether they want to immigrate, etc. Of course, you need to pay attention to your approach and tone when raising these questions, and don't put too much pressure on the other party.
5. Life attitude
Life attitude is one of the important factors for us to get along with others. By understanding the other person's attitude toward life, you can better understand his/her personality traits and values.
You can ask the other person what they think about life, whether they are optimistic, whether they like to try new things, etc. Likewise, you can also share your own attitude towards life and philosophical thinking.
Summary
The above is an introduction to the chat topics of blind date partners. In a blind date, chatting is a very important part. You need to pay attention to the method and tone, and don't put too much pressure on the other party. By understanding each other’s interests, hobbies, work and study situation, family and friends, and futureIn terms of planning and life attitude, you can better understand each other and establish a closer connection.
