Many people don’t know how to start a chat with a girl who has just added her on WeChat. In fact, when you add a girl on WeChat, she is also looking forward to how you will contact her. If you fail to live up to this expectation of the girl, then it will be a disaster. That’s not good...
1. Chat avatar
When chatting through WeChat , girls’ avatars are the easiest information to receive.
Most girls like to get compliments from others. When you start chatting, try to be sweeter and say some flattering words to leave a good impression on the girl. If you compliment a girl's profile picture, you basically can't go wrong.
Based on the opening remarks of her avatar, it is roughly like this: "Your avatar is pretty/cool/cute." When a girl hears this, she will reply to you with words like "Okay/Okay/Thank you."
At the beginning, you will inevitably feel shy and nervous. You can then take the initiative to introduce why you use this avatar, expand the topic, and extend it appropriately.
For example, if your avatar is of a cat or a dog, you can focus on the topic of pets and talk about your favorite animals and whether you have any pets.
If your avatar is something like a landscape, you can focus on the beautiful scenery and talk about your favorite place and any travel plans in the near future.
Don’t limit the chat to the avatar itself. The avatar is just a photo. If it is centered around this photo, then it is very likely that the chat will continue to freeze in less than five sentences.
2. Chat about nicknames
When communicating through WeChat, in addition to avatars, nicknames are also a relatively easy-to-receive information.
Regarding the issue of nicknames, you cannot use the method of praising avatars. "Your nickname is nice?" This sentence sounds strange.
Girls may not have anything to say except thank you. The chat will come to an abrupt end.
At this time, it is still important to remember the two words "active". Take the initiative and explain why you have this nickname. After introducing your nickname, you can add "What about you? Why are you called this name." and throw the topic to the girl.
As a boy, being more proactive can help girls relax a little and make the conversation less tense, making the conversation easier.
3. Talking about Hometown
Wang Wei has a poem: "A gentleman comes to his hometown and should know about his hometown." Li Bai also wrote, "Look up at the bright moon and lower your head to think about your hometown." Every time Everyone has special feelings for their hometown.
If a girl is a person who has left her hometown and worked hard alone, then there will be endless things to say when talking about her hometown.
If you are living in your hometown, don’t be afraid that there will be no topics to talk about. The scenery, food andCustoms and other customs can be discussed.
4. Talk about interests
If you drag a girl to talk about something that only interests you Topic, you will most likely get only perfunctory answers like "Yeah/Yeah/That's awesome."
When chatting about interests, give girls more opportunities to express themselves. Once she has the desire to express herself, the chat will go smoothly.
So what is the starting point for talking about your interests?
I think the best way is to share a video related to your interests and invite the girl to watch it and talk to her about it. Talk about your interests. Then ask her and let her talk about her interests.
This kind of opening is more effective than a straightforward statement, and will not make girls feel awkward about introducing themselves. Remember to use a sense of humor when choosing videos.
5. Talk about movies
Open your Baidu and enter the word movie, you can get tens of thousands of search results. Obviously, if you talk about movies with her, you'll have a lot to explore.
If you want to talk about movies with girls, the easiest way is to start with the most popular movies that have been released recently.
Then talk about some similar themes, or you can invite girls to introduce a few movies to you. After reading them, you can continue to share your feelings with her.
As soon as the two communicate, the chat will continue naturally~ Don’t worry that girls will reject your request. They are very enthusiastic about Amway movies.
6. Talking about music
Listening to music can relax people very well. A song usually lasts four or five minutes. I believe girls will not even spend these four or five minutes. Not for you.
Share a piece of music you like and tell me why you like it. It doesn’t have to be formal, just be casual. Talk to the girl about whether she has any favorite music, singers, bands, etc.
If you happen to have the same preferences, share your opinions with each other. If it happens that this singer or band has some activities recently, you will get an unexpected opportunity to meet them.
The most important thing about this method is that sharing music can be done in one step. Never let girls search for themselves or share paid songs.
If a girl is not interested and you ask her to search by herself, she will basically not listen, and the subsequent plan will not be implemented.
7. Talk about books
There is a saying that is good, there is poetry and calligraphy in the belly.
Scholars really have a special aura and often have their own opinions. People who have ideas will not worry about talkingWhat's up.
Recommend books to each other. The book does not have to be a world famous book. Even if it is a novel, it is enough as long as it is interesting.
During the chat, you can talk about your favorite characters in the book, or which lifestyle you admire.
If you don’t read books or all you read are pornographic books, then don’t force yourself to talk about reading.
8. Talk about life
As long as we are human beings, we cannot do without firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, so there must be many interesting points in life worth sharing.
Observing life carefully, interesting little things coupled with dramatic humorous expressions make girls feel as if they are actually there when they hear it.
For example, the embarrassing things you encounter while chasing the bus on the way to work, or the interesting things you encounter at work. But be careful not to overexaggerate for the sake of humor and let your image collapse. It will be very difficult to repair it.
9. Talk about plans
Boys who have clear plans for the future can more easily win the favor of girls. You can talk to the girl about your plans for the future when she has enough time.
If you are talking about plans, girls may say: "It's so awesome." Never reply with confident words such as "That is/must" without thinking.
This is likely to make girls think you are an overconfident person.
So how to deal with a girl saying: "Why is she so awesome?" You can reply to her: "That's right, I have something even better."
On the one hand, you show yourself With confidence and the girl's desire to ask further, the chat went on naturally.
10. Talking about food
Once upon a time, there was a foreigner who promised to eat all the Chinese food in a year, but he did not leave Sichuan for five years. You can see there are hundreds of delicious foods waiting for you to explore.
If girls like to eat sour food, I recommend sour food. A girl likes sweets, so I recommend sweets to her. This method is always the right one to do as you like.
Even if we have finished talking about Chinese food, we can still talk about world food. By the way, you can also use this topic to show off your cooking skills, so that girls will continue to increase their favorability towards you.
The above methods all require finding the right time, analyzing the situation, and then choosing the one that suits you best. Only by prescribing the right medicine can the problem be solved perfectly.
In the process of chatting, although it is right to be proactive, you must always pay attention to maintaining a certain distance. Too close communication or too rapid development trends are not conducive to maintaining the relationship, so don't be impatient.
