It is said that when chasing a girl, you should not chat every day, because the girl is not used to your presence in her life at this time, and most girls are not used to chatting with a person suddenly and passionately, so you have to take your time to chat with a girl. Come on, let nature take its course is the best state. Now let’s talk about how often you should chat with a girl when you first start chasing her?
1. It depends on how long you and the girl have known each other
In fact, how often you should talk to a girl depends on how long you have known her. If you have only known the girl for a short time, then it is best to It is best to keep chatting once every three days and two or three times a week. Don't chat awkwardly. If you want to chat, chat happily. In the process of chatting again and again, your relationship will be enhanced. If you go to chat with a girl every day after you first meet her, the girl will think that you are doing nothing all day long, and she will think that you are kneeling and licking her. You can put yourself in your shoes and think about it: If a girl you are not interested in chats with you every day, and talks about unhelpful topics. Do you also find it annoying and don't want to talk to her? Therefore, in the early stages of getting to know each other, try not to harass the other person; do not cause trouble to the other person and affect her spare time. Otherwise, it will cause him stress and distress and make him want to stay away from you.
If you and the girl have known each other for a long time, and the girl will be more positive and enthusiastic every time she replies to your message, in this case it proves that the girl In fact, she is also fond of you, so you can chat with her every day. In addition, the number of words in your reply should not be more than three-fourths of the other person's, and do not reply to the other person instantly. For example, if the other person replies to you in 5 minutes, you should also reply to her in 5 minutes. , so as not to expose your sense of need and be evenly matched with each other.
2. Chat in a girl’s free time
When chatting with a girl, it is best to know when the girl is free first. This way the chat will take longer, and otherwise it will disturb others. Life. After you get acquainted with her, don't always go to her to chat by yourself. Try to let girls come to you to share some topics. Get to know each other, put forward some of your own opinions, reflect your own qualities, and increase your liking for you. When you find that there are some interesting topics that a girl may be interested in, you can also talk to her about it. Otherwise, it will be a bit embarrassing to end after just a few words. Don't do it too often, and be relaxed.
3. It is determined by the girl’s interest in you
If the girl is not disgusted with you, then you will The chatting will be endless, so you don’t need to control the frequency of chatting too much in this case; if a girl has no feelings for you or just wants to hook you up, the girl will probably take the initiative to control the frequency of chatting, and you don’t need to worry too much. So before you chat with a girl, all you have to do is bring up the topic to test the girl's interest in you. If she doesn't reply, don't drop the topic.
So when you first start chasing a girl, how often you should talk to her depends on the specific situation. Deliberate control will make the girl misunderstand whether you are not interested in her. Of course, if girls show R&D emotions, you may have to pay attention.
