Question:
Hello, tutor, my girlfriend and I have been together for almost two years. When we first started falling in love, we were always tired of being together, but in the recent period, , I feel like my girlfriend has changed. In the past, when I went out to drink and socialize, she would prepare honey water and the like for me, but now she doesn't even bother to look at me, and often questions me. Sometimes she ignores me, and sometimes she calls me more than ten times a day. A phone call. I really feel that now is different from before, very tired, and a girl in the company who liked me before is very nice to me now. I am hesitant to break up with my current girlfriend and be with this girl.
Answer:
Brother, we can’t help you make a decision on this issue because we can’t stand To restrain you from the moral high ground. But I can give you a core piece of advice, that is, as a man, I think you have to be responsible for your youth and the youth of the girl you are with. After all, she has done nothing wrong. She may have refused a lot for you. Better man. When you chose her in the first place, you must take responsibility.
People do continue to meet new people throughout their lives, and it is normal to occasionally meet someone of the opposite sex that you admire very much.
But I think as a man, you can’t think of breaking up with your current girlfriend just because she is better. You have to be responsible.
If you are still a child, I can understand you. After all, children are easily confused when they encounter multiple-choice questions.
If you are an adult, I just want to tell you that a good relationship cannot be maintained entirely by heartbeat. Secondly, it requires two people to work together. If you are looking for short-term excitement, then you can chase one after another. But if you want to get a sincere and long-lasting relationship, you need to calm down and manage the relationship.
If you feel that it is too tiring to get along now, it is actually because you have invested too much and will not take the initiative to ask for it. You need to let your girl know that your love is not unconditional. If she wants your love, she has to give it.
Maybe if you give her a lipstick, you have to receive a kiss. If you help her peel a shrimp, Eventually she puts it in your mouth.
Do you think that even if you are with another girl, you won’t be tired afterwards? Again, whatever the girl has on her body is her business, what we have to do is Change yourself. If we don't improve our understanding and enter the next relationship with the flaws of the previous relationship, your ending will still be the same.
