Many times boys don’t quite understand girls’ thinking, and what they say or do may accidentally make girls angry. In this case, of course you must first find a way to apologize to the girl and coax her back to peace, otherwise the girl will remain angry and it will not be conducive to the development of your relationship. Let’s talk about how to apologize if you make a girl angry? This calms her down.
1. Admit your mistake first and apologize
After making a girl angry, you need to admit your mistake and apologize first. You need to understand one purpose: it is all your fault anyway, just stick to this idea (this It’s just a joke, it’s just that a girl can’t listen to the truth when she’s angry, but she can listen after she calms down).
Be careful not to say "What happened to you" or "What did I do again" after a girl gets angry? It will only intensify the conflict between you (many boys are very nervous, and many things are like what's going on, what does it matter, why should you care). But a girl’s mind is very delicate. Your words will be misunderstood by her as why are you like this, do you not like me enough, do you dislike me... and the result will naturally be bad.
So if you make a girl angry, don’t worry about how you apologize. First admit your mistake. Don’t get angry. It’s all my fault. You always have to say this. Girls will avoid hugging, kissing or anything like that at first. But if a girl is not particularly angry, she will give up after being coaxed by you for a few words.
2. Coax the girl with words
Once you admit your mistake and feel that the girl is not so angry, you can coax the girl with words and make her calm down completely. For example, you can turn on the self-deprecating mode:
I am a stupid person. I want to say a few more words to you, but I just make you unhappy. I want to coax you but don’t know how to coax you, and then I pretend. Pity or something like that (the feeling in my heart is that you just don’t know how to express it. How can you not believe me? I’m so afraid that you ignore me and don’t want me. Maybe you are the one being coaxed in turn).
3. Take girls to relax
Sometimes girls say they are not angry with you anymore , but in fact she is still angry, so the last step is to take the girl to relax and relieve her anger. When you are getting along happily, the girl will naturally forget about being angry.
As for how to take girls to relax? You can take a girl out shopping, you can take her to eat delicious food that she has been coveting for a long time, you can also take her to see fluffy bunny toys, small key chains... or send her a red envelope asking for forgiveness.
Of course, what we said above about "how to apologize when a girl is angry" are all situations where small problems make a girl angry. The seed is actually femaleStudents are easy to coax. If you make a girl angry because of some big issue or principled issue, you may have to take action to remedy it yourself. For example, if you do something that insults the other person's personal dignity, it cannot be solved by a small apology.
