Some people tend to put themselves very low in front of the person they like. Although sometimes an inferiority complex can make a person become better, more often, inferiority complex can destroy a relationship. So how should men with low self-esteem in relationships change?

1. What are the symptoms of men with low self-esteem in relationships?

　1. Please

In an intimate relationship, the person who pleases is often the victim of self-sacrifice.

You are used to suppressing your emotions to meet the needs of others. As long as you can make others happy, you will have no principles, no bottom line, and even sacrifice yourself.

Of course, people who please people will also have self-doubt and be full of grievances. You will think, "Why am I always the one who gets hurt?" "Am I not worth mentioning? I am not important."

In fact, to please is an emotion of sacrificing oneself and feeling that one is of low value.

2. Accusation

Accusing people will have a presupposition in their hearts: I must never behave Out of weakness.

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You have become accustomed to communicating with others in a condescending manner. , you think you are right in everything, but in fact you are just using external authority to cover up your inner inferiority.

　3. Anxiety

Anxiety-sensitive people are sponges for bad emotions.

You can quickly capture other people’s emotions, especially the emotions of dissatisfaction, disdain, resistance, boredom, and pain.

Having the habit of over-interpreting and absorbing other people’s emotions, becoming a slave to other people’s emotions, always thinking too much and worrying.

2. How to change men with low self-esteem in relationships

　1. Accept the true self

People with low self-esteem are often unable to formally face themselves, dare not communicate with their partners with their true selves, and are used to wearing masks to establish relationships with their partners.

You have to learn to accept your true self, even if your true self is not perfect or outstanding.

To hint to yourself that no one is perfect. When you face it with a more tolerant heart, you may find that the world becomes lovely again.

2. Discover your own shining points

People with low self-esteem cannot face themselves and always feel that they have no Advantages, very low sense of value.

At this time, you can discover one of your own strengths every day, record it, and then continue to do it.Psychological suggestion.

When there is no external encouragement for you, you must also learn to encourage yourself.

No one is born perfect, and no one is perfect forever. You are always on the way to getting better, and you are the most beautiful version of yourself.

When you face everything with confidence, you will find that the relationship between you and your lover will also become very harmonious.