Blind date is a traditional way of marriage and love, but not every blind date can find the person you like. How should we say no when faced with a blind date we don’t like? Here are some methods and suggestions.

1. Be honest with each other

In the process of blind date, it is very important to be honest with each other. If you are not interested in the other person, then you should tell him/her directly. Avoid using vague or perfunctory words, which will only give the other person hope and make him/her think there is still a chance.

For example, you could say: "Sorry, I feel like we lack common topics and interests, so I think we Not suitable." This not only expresses your true feelings, but also respects the other person.

2. Guide the conversation

If you feel that direct rejection may embarrass or hurt the other person, then you can try to guide the conversation and let the other person realize the inappropriateness between you.

For example, you can ask some questions or topics and see if the other person can answer or participate. If the other person doesn't seem positive or relatable, you can use these clues to determine if he or she is right for you.

3. Be honest but gentle

When you turn down a blind date, be honest but gentle. Avoid using hurtful words or being too direct in order to avoid hurting the other person's self-esteem.

For example, you could say: "I feel like we lack a special rapport and attraction, so I think we Not suitable." This not only expresses your true feelings, but also tries to avoid hurting the other person.

4. Give affirmation and blessings

When rejecting a blind date, it is very important to give them affirmation and blessings. Even if you are not interested in the other person, respect his/her efforts and hope that he/she can find someone who is more suitable for him/her.

For example, you can say: "Although we are not very suitable, I believe you will find a more suitable person. Good luck!" This not only expresses your attitude, but also gives Encourage and bless each other.

It is not easy to say no to a blind date, but we should be honest and express our true feelings honestly but gently. At the same time, give the other person affirmation and blessings, respect his/her efforts, and hope that he/she can find someone more suitable for him/her. This not only protects your own interests, but also respects the other person's feelings.