When we are chasing girls, we often encounter obstacles, because the girl you like may be very cold towards you. Maybe her personality is like this, or maybe she doesn't like you disturbing her and will be relatively cold when facing you. If you want to break the aloofness of a girl, how should you chat with her?

When many people meet aloof girls, You will feel helpless when facing them because of your lack of experience. Maybe when you were chatting with her, you ran out of all the ideas you could think of, and she only responded with one word "hmm" every time.

When encountering this situation, you can send her a sentence: "If you are colder, I will throw you from the 30th floor." This method is very effective when dealing with some cold girls. It will work wonders, they will take off their cold masks and be willing to chat with you.

When we meet a cold girl, we can directly expose her and tell her your dissatisfaction. As long as this girl has the slightest interest in you, you will be able to reverse the situation immediately.

Another way to break her aloofness is to let yourself erase her aloofness.

I once met such a cold woman. The first method of "exploding" had no effect on her. She was still the same cold woman.

So, I decided not to tease her later, but kept teasing her with a bad taste.

Give an example:

Male: "Little sister"

Female: "?"

If you don't reply to her, it will take a few days After that

Male: "Little sister"

Female: "Huh?"

Don’t reply to her, a few days later

Boy: “Little cutie”

Girl: “What?”

Don’t reply to her, a week later

Male: "Little fool"

Female: "Here I am! I just changed my hair style"

Then she sent me a selfie

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What? Aren’t you aloof?

This time, I did not disappear, but started chatting with her. In fact, she is a very enthusiastic person, and there is a little more little girl.

When a girl is particularly aloof, use time to eliminate her aloofness. For example, if her reply is very cold, stop talking to her for the time being, and come back after a while, and the cycle will continue until she is no longer cold.

Many people may want to ask, what if neither of these two methods works?

That means she has no interest in you at all. All you have to do is stay as her friend and continue to train yourself through her.Improve yourself and make yourself better.

Occasionally show your high value in your circle of friends, and then communicate with her every once in a while to observe whether her enthusiasm for you has changed. This is also a spur to yourself.

In summary, there are two ways to deal with a girl’s aloofness

1. Directly expose the girl’s aloofness and express your dissatisfaction to her

2 . Use time to slowly eliminate the aloofness of girls

When pursuing aloof girls, be patient. After all, the iceberg cannot melt in one day. Of course, if you don't have to do it with her and you're not willing to insist on it, then it's better not to continue pursuing her. If you want to train yourself, or like her very much, then I hope you won't give up easily, and success will not be too far away from you.