If you want to leave a good impression on a girl during a date, it is necessary to make some preparations in advance. So under normal circumstances, what is the process of going out with a girl on a date?
Dating The process is generally divided into three parts: 1. Operation in front of the meeting 2. Intermediate operation 3. Transition and relationship upgrade
These three steps combine the structure of the "invitation stage" in the previous step. The two complement each other and also That is to say, the lower limit of your relationship with a girl during the date is determined by the previous stage, and the upper limit is determined by the on-site dating operation.
Next, we will talk about how to operate these three parts to create a perfect date, so that you and the girl can smoothly upgrade your relationship during the date.
1. Pre-meeting operations
At this time, we have determined the date and location with the girl. When the time comes, you can just go and start a date with the girl.
But before we meet, I usually say a few more words, in order to upgrade the relationship to a hand-in-hand relationship with the girl as soon as we meet.
The specific operation is:
Male: I have already got in the car and walked towards you, and I feel a little nervous.
Female: Why are you nervous?
Male: If I feel nervous then, just take the initiative to hold my hand, so that I won’t be nervous.
Female: Okay, let’s see what potential you have.
This is a small process. After we meet the girl, we will briefly exchange a few words, and then quickly build up the relationship so that each other is not so strange and awkward.
At this time, we say: "I feel a little nervous."
Then we hand our hand to the girl. Under normal circumstances, the girl will take it. This escalates the relationship to holding hands.
If the girl rejects us at this time, then don’t be anxious. Change the subject and escalate the relationship. As long as it is done properly, there is no physical relationship that cannot be upgraded.
After all, people are eager to be close.
2. Mid-section operations
I chose the movie theater for the date in the middle section, because the atmosphere in the movie theater is ambiguous. More suitable for upgrading relationships. And girls who are willing to watch movies alone with you are also girls who are willing to develop further with you.
If nothing unexpected happens during this period, I believe you and your girl have already walked to the cinema hand in hand.
Let’s continue with a little routine, that is, when we go to the cinema hand in hand, we should insert a small routine in the middle to warm up, so that the chance of being okay while watching the movie will increase. .
The specific operations are as follows:
Man: You said we are doing this to othersDo you think they are a couple?
Female: I don’t know.
Male: I really hope they think so.
Female: Why.
Male: Because this is like love. (Smile evilly)
Female: Fuck you, haha.
Put yourself in the situation of a couple in advance. Although the house has not been determined, everything is already very obvious.
When watching movies, try not to choose action blockbusters, but choose movies that can arouse girls' emotions. This can save money. We have many things to do.
When I watch a movie, I usually rest my head on the girl’s shoulder in the middle of the movie. Then say: "I like this feeling very much. It's really fun to watch movies with the people I like."
After saying this, there is a high chance that the girl will also rest her head on yours. .
Then you have to hold the girl’s hand tightly and then raise your head. If the angle is right, you can see the girl's eyes.
If she is looking at you, don’t hesitate to kiss her...
3. Transition and relationship upgrade
Watched I believe your relationship with your girl will become even closer after the movie.
This period is the stage to determine the relationship between you and the girl. If you do it well, congratulations, you will successfully have a girlfriend.
According to my rhythm, I will go for a walk hand in hand with the girl. Let’s talk about the plot of the movie just now and her soft lips.
When I take my girl for a walk, I will find a quiet period, and occasionally there will be traffic passing by. The atmosphere is very good and suitable for expressing love.
However, we cannot express our feelings directly. We can use a more prudent term.
“Actually, sometimes when I’m walking by myself, I think about how great it would be if I had you by my side. Would you like to take a walk with me when you have time in the future?”
Although it’s okay to express good feelings like this. It doesn’t have the energy of “be my girlfriend”, but if the girl agrees to what you say, it’s equivalent to agreeing to be your girlfriend.
Of course, you can also say, "Be my girlfriend" after the girl agrees to your overture. Well, I’m already obsessed with the feeling of being with you.”
Although I personally feel that this method of confession is equivalent to giving the decision-making power of the relationship to the girl, which is too risky. But sometimes confession is indeed a very romantic thing. The man is in love and the concubine is interested. Now it is announced that they are boyfriend and girlfriend, and they will no longer be single in the future. Just thinking about it makes me happy.
But in the endI still have to say: "Confessing your love is risky. If you fail, it's over."
