When I talk about love brains, do many of my friends naturally think of girls? I don’t object to this. Girls do have a lot of love brains, but looking at it conversely, many boys also have love brains. The behavior of the love brain, so how to overcome the love brain? In my opinion, first of all, you have to understand what the love brain looks like.

Love brain, in layman's terms, means that when you are in love, you focus on the other person, and your mind is filled with the other person, no matter what When you are studying, working, or hanging out with friends, it is difficult to concentrate. From time to time, you have to check your phone to see if there are any messages from the other person, and your thoughts are all about what the other person is doing.

If the other party replies late to the message, the waiting period will be even more confusing and unable to do anything. In the past few years, I have been able to stare at the phone, and I was relieved until I received the message. Then I looked again. Half a day was wasted.

And it also depends on the tone of the other person. If it is good, then the next mood will be bright and sunny. If you are a little indifferent or the other person is busy, you will start to hold your phone and think about it, "Are you chatting with others, are you meeting new people? I'm going to see what you are doing."

I called them one after another. Some impulsively went directly to the other party’s company or home. Those from other places just bought air tickets and high-speed rail tickets to get there.

Over time, the other person will become very tired with you, and you will also be very tired. That will greatly affect your work and life.

In fact, love brain is caused by our various dissatisfactions, such as low self-esteem, lack of security or sense of worth, etc. Caused by various reasons.

So the way the love brain shows up is:

Longing for intimacy but sensitive and suspicious, hoping to stay in touch with the other person at all times;

Particularly fond of testing in relationships The other party will please the other party in order to maintain the existing relationship;

I am used to self-sacrificial giving, and I am afraid of being abandoned when I am alone. Once I can establish a connection with my lover, it is like grasping a life-saving straw, like It’s an emotional hunger.

If you are in the above-mentioned state when it comes to relationships, I advise you to change it quickly while you have time and opportunity, and don’t let your love brain lose the person who loves you the most.

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